I was perusing this blog post earlier today and I was struck by this line: “You know how ‘curvy’ has become the online dating euphemism for “grotesquely overweight”?”
Ok, ok. I get it. But, the truth is, a lot of us girls looking for love are, in fact, pleasantly plump and need to find a term that expresses it without making our profile all about our weight. Curvy, voluptuous, pleasantly plump, boobalicious?
But more importantly, so what if we’re fat?!
Granted, there are a lot of guys out there who are superficial and can’t see past a juicy booty. But, I have to tell you, as I get older, many (but not all, of course) guys often get fatter too! And you know something? It doesn’t bother me! I don’t want to end up with another secret eater like A. but I also know that as we get older, our metabolism changes. Unless you’re off running the Boston Marathon, chances are you might be getting a little pudgier too.
And it’s ok. We don’t all have to be skinny bitches. We can be curvy and unique and shockingly wonderful. Just because I have a juicy booty doesn’t mean I’m less desirable than a skinny bitch. It just means there’s a lot more of me to love.
And for those of you who may not know me, trust me – I know what it is like to be a skinny bitch. Just a few short years ago I was a bony, hungry, skinny bitch. And, now, having the choice, I’d stick with the happier fat version of me any day!