Still can’t seem to motivate myself to rejoin Match or Jdate.  What’s stopping me?  

4 thoughts on “Help!

  1. YOU are stopping you. Feel confident about yourself and the opportunity but don’t set expectations or objectives. Do it to enjoy meeting people and to give yourself opportunities. Of course, it could also be the costs! 🙂

  2. Maybe you just don’t want to, and that’s fine.

    That’s the blessing of being 39–the baby ship has sailed. You don’t have that external pressure and can just enjoy being yourself. You don’t have to put up with anyone else’s batshit parents, ex-spouses, children who were raised to other people’s standards. Your apartment is as clean or filthy as YOU like it, you can adopt a kitten and take maternity leave to cuddle it, and do whatever you want.

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