YOU are stopping you. Feel confident about yourself and the opportunity but don’t set expectations or objectives. Do it to enjoy meeting people and to give yourself opportunities. Of course, it could also be the costs! 🙂
As a matchmaker, I get a lot of clients who have tried online dating. The truth is, 80% of online profiles contain some fabrication and 30% of men dating online are married, that’s why 😉
That’s the blessing of being 39–the baby ship has sailed. You don’t have that external pressure and can just enjoy being yourself. You don’t have to put up with anyone else’s batshit parents, ex-spouses, children who were raised to other people’s standards. Your apartment is as clean or filthy as YOU like it, you can adopt a kitten and take maternity leave to cuddle it, and do whatever you want.
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YOU are stopping you. Feel confident about yourself and the opportunity but don’t set expectations or objectives. Do it to enjoy meeting people and to give yourself opportunities. Of course, it could also be the costs! 🙂
As a matchmaker, I get a lot of clients who have tried online dating. The truth is, 80% of online profiles contain some fabrication and 30% of men dating online are married, that’s why 😉
You’re right. I worked with a matchmaker once and they didn’t do a good job. I wish you were in Boston! Know anyone in DC who’d relocate for me? 😊
Maybe you just don’t want to, and that’s fine.
That’s the blessing of being 39–the baby ship has sailed. You don’t have that external pressure and can just enjoy being yourself. You don’t have to put up with anyone else’s batshit parents, ex-spouses, children who were raised to other people’s standards. Your apartment is as clean or filthy as YOU like it, you can adopt a kitten and take maternity leave to cuddle it, and do whatever you want.